Why cannot men take responsibility ?

What stops him from taking responsibility ?

How many women  out there are dating men who find you truly compatible, admire you and yeah, sex is great too but….the BUT butts in.

What stops him from assuring you that he will take care of all of you for life.

I mean not that you want to depend on him BUT you want him to be dependable.

Of course you will want to be financially independent BUT would wish he doesn’t let your bank balance bother you.

And Of course he wants absolute fidelility BUT cannot commit his future

Don’t get me wrong , I am not talking about a jerk here , he does get very worried about your safety BUT wouldn’t want to promise to keep you safe

He finds you to be fun, cool , smart and caring BUT fears of being hurt by you.

You are very important to him, more than ‘very important’ if I may say BUT you are not important enough to share his space for life

They say Women are complictated BUT why aren’t Men simple

Care to throw some light.

Poem for Daughters. : My Identity

One of my fav..

WINGS

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She announced my identity

With pride… with love for infinity

Unknown to what she gave me

A time, far beyond trinity

An existence of a soul, graved beneath the  bottom

A spring in the land of never ending autumn

With her little heart … yet so profound

With her little eyes ..yet so pronounced

With her little hands ..yet so perfect

She togethered what was left

Of a bird with no feather

A  prisoner in surrender

 a woman with no power

And she titled her

  ‘ my mother’

Unknown to what she gave me

A life to nurture . A love forever

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The Chocolate Log – McLeod

Settled into my apartment – Golden Wings at Jogiwara Rd followed by a snuggled night sleep.
A wide awake morning sight of a dream. Oh whatta day is it gonna be. 
Should I stay indoors and get accustomed to the cold wind or should wander in the lanes ?? ..
Does my body need its well deserved rest.. Or does my excitment need its adrenile rush.
Well…I decided on the latter…with a promise of not over doing it.
As I walked the steep way up the valley … My legs started giving up.
My tired muscles needed some warmth from the cold air.
And tucked in a corner came my wish… Hallelujah!! … Just as the Almighty knew what I needed and was anxious to fulfill.
Chocolate Log. – a beautiful cafe tucked in a corner on jogiwara rd.
As I stepped in n relaxed.. My palatte yearned for a hot cuppa of chocolate milk… A chained thought from the cafes name of course…
And I must say it couldn’t be more perfect…
Start of my journey with every girls loyal lover – Chocolate.

     My exhausted twosome

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Its Remedy

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In company of warmth

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– Soaring Words

Dharamshala and McLeodganj

Heaven on earth is what its called. And it justify’s it’s title if not more.
As you get closer to the valley, the tingling feeling in your tummy, nippy breeze brushing through your face and a sight that few lucky experience, transforms your 6 senses into one.
Home of Dalai Lama
Sublime Beauty – Dharamshala
Follow this blog to experience all offerings of the valley

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– Soaring Words

I await..

Am I alone ??
Or are you teaching me to walk my path
Am I weak ??
Or are you teaching me to strengthen my heart
Am I sad ??
Or are you teaching me to appreciate my smile

Will life forever be so ??
Or will I be your obedient student
Will you forever be tough ??
Or will I bask in your glory

I await when time feels me
I await when happiness sees me
I await when sun shines above
I await for you.. for me love

– Soaring Words

Oblivious

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A decade …not long ago
I tripped… oblivious so
The hurt …didn’t seem to matter
With Pieces of glass… all hither scattered
The wrath soon  faded far
With  memories to reside in my scars

Now a decade later…not long ago
I tripped again…oblivious so
The hurt…didn’t seem to matter
this hour lay pieces of his heart…all hither scattered
The wrath soon faded far
with memories to reside in his scars

– Soaring Words

Zodiac Sign and your Food


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i understand that each one’s taste buds and eating habits differ, however wouldn’t it be beneficial if we understood it without being taken by surprise or work with the pattern in order to create something special. As I grew more inquisitive , wanting to fix the perplexion caused by the profound eating habits and preferences, my learning of astrology and tarot came handy. I discovered that our Zodiac Signs have an immense influence on our craving or fondness for specific cuisine and our eating habits. The Colors, Textures and the Characteristic of our favorite dish ironically coincide with the characteristicS of our Zodiac Sun Sign A Blend of Flavors and Colors as per your Sun Sign can reflect on your mood or alter your state of mind from low to pleasant, happy to euphoric and calm to sensual. The Right spread for the Right occasion enhances the sheer purpose of the Meal.

Aries The Cardinal Fire sign of the astrological chart are bold, straightforward, courageous and often misjudged to be insensitive.

Food Characteristics Often ready to experiment with their flavors, Aries get drawn to bold, vibrant and deep colors like Red, Browns and Greens from the food palette. They favor fiery and bold taste. Cuisines like Chicken Provencal, Spicy Pork Ribs, Red Thai Curry, Pesto Fettucini or Dark Chocolate Fondue hold high appeal to their taste buds.

Taurus The Earth Sign of the astrological chart, Taurus is known to be steady, stubborn, passionate and disciplined. Their goal for good life and money often translates into their love for luxury.

Food Characteristics Appealed by the colors of luxury like, Pink, Green, Blue or the pastel shades, Taurians are often impressed with nothing but the best in food produce. A black truffle risotto, Seared scallops with champagne sauce, Oyster Martinis or Blue Cheese Bruchetta seem to always do the trick .

Gemini The Air Sign of the astrological chart, Geminins are creative, fearless, fun and are known to be rebels. They love traveling and endure having new experiences.

Food Characteristics Yellow, Greens, Oranges, the colors of vibrant flowers are amongst their favorites. Exotic Cuisine such as the Caribbean flavors of the Jamaican Grilled Fish or the Morrocan Tagine or the Empanadas never fail to excite them. image

Cancer Ruled by the Water Element, Cancerians are home loving, imaginative, protective and so very moody. One of the most sensitive and emotional signs, Cancerians weigh their life as per their feelings. .

Food Characteristics Colors of the moon such as Silver and Whites draw their attention. Their craving for comfort and belonging often influence them to enjoy a cozy home cooked menu. Mild flavors, creamy texture and fresh soothing aroma are always preferred. The likes of a comforting French Onion Soup, Macaroni and cheese or Crustacean Delicacies are always listed amongst their favorites

Leo The Fiery Fire Sign, a Leo’s personality is true to its sign of the Lion. Commanding, ambitious. arrogant but fun and social, a Leo is often the life of a party.

Food Characteristics Due to their Ruling planet – The Sun, Leos often prefer colors of the sun like Orange, Gold, Yellow or Red. Their taste buds are tantalized with strong fiery or rich flavors. A menu of Chicken Tikka Masala, a rich Paella or the Chopitle flavors bring out the food lovers in Leos

Virgo The Earth Sign of the Astrological Chart, Virgos are known to be analytical, practical, meticulous and almost perfectionists. They can also be overtly critical, a quality that stems from being a perfectionist.They weigh the pros and cons very carefully prior to any decision and hence shall not welcome risk taking or get adventurousadventurous

 Food Characteristics Their Lucky being White, Yellow and Green, Virgos prefer a tried taste rather than experimenting. Being the analytical self they like to decipher each flavor or ingredient of the dish, not leaving much for imagination or surprise. Simple, non complex, fresh flavors are what they look for in a menu. Dishes like Fresh Green Salads, Lemon Parmesan Tilapia, or a Crème Brassiere give a fair glimpse of their likings.

Libra The Air Sign and very often called the Lazy Librans, people born under this zodiac are intelligent and creative beings. Dreamers, admirers of love, peace and beauty it almost comes naturally for a Libran to cut itself off the world and dwell in its fantasyland until its next calling.

Food Characteristics Drawn to soothing colors like White, Turquoise, Blue and Pink, a Libran looks for a harmonious blend in flavors. A balance of yin and yang is their mantra. Poached Salmon in Red wine Vinaigrette, Braised Chicken with White Radish and Herbs, or a Puffed Sticky Pavlova makes quite an impression to their senses.

Scorpio The Water Sign with the most intensity, passion, and energy.Their strong personality almost shines through among a crowd and their zeal for life can leave many mesmerized.

Food Characteristics Common to their personality they prefer intense shades of the palate such as Black, Red, Grey. Scorpions have a love affair like relation with food, wherein their taste buds are more complex and refined for the rich flavors of a menu. Recipes such as Squid in Black in Sauce, Venison with Blackberry glaze, Saffron Rice or Death by Chocolate Cake steer up the passion in this zodiac.

Sagittarius Ruled by the Fire Sign the Sagittarians are usually modest, adventurous, idealistic and eager for new experiences. However their anger can get the better of them and they can flare up over trifles.

Food Characteristics The color of Richness and Royalty – Rich Purple; often appeals to them the most. Their adventurous characteristic allows them to enjoy traveling and hence their taste palate is likes new flavors and world cuisine. A menu such as Duck Parfait, Dahud Basa, Indian Stew or Japanese Miso Steak are sure to excite them

Capricorn The Earth Sign of the Astrological Chart. Capricorns are stable, practical and profound, They are determined with the task in hand and are good planners. These creative beings often attracted to theater and music.

Food Characteristics Similar to the Earthy shades, the colors of this Zodiac Sign are Dark Brown, Black and Grey. Due to their conservatoires Capricorns often prefer ingredients they are well aware of. An Array of Classic dishes being their favorite choice.

Pisces The final Water Sign is overtly flexible, adaptable, inspirational and mystical. They are most spiritual of all the signs.

Food Characteristics The colors of the Sea in different phases of the day and seasons are the colors for Piscean. Sea Green, Blue, Mauve and White. A beautiful Seafood plated meal is an obvious of their choices. Prawns Orchiette with Herbs, Trout en Papillote or a Baked Raspberry Cheesecake would make a wonderful menu for them

Aquarius The Air Sign of the Zodiac Chart is friendly, sensitive, gentle with attractive personalities however can be an exhibitionist .They are a fine addition to any party as they are known to be comfortable in social gatherings

Food Characteristics Shades of blue such as Turquoise, Sky blue, Indigo are their lucky shades. Due to their liveliness Aquarians prefer a menu with different textures, colors and blends. Certainly not one for an orthodox, conservative meal however not too experimental with flavors, their ideal meal shall comprise of few known and few not so known. A beautiful Steak with seasonal veggies, Ham and blue cheese tart or a Mexican bean salad shall liven their taste buds Soo next time you decide on a menu…look up your birthday . image Posted from WordPress for Android

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